I’m NOT a Playa…I Just Crush A Lot!

Last Thursday a friend of mine, Melissa, posted something on my Facebook wall.  It was a link to another blog.  The title of the blog entry was “Are You Being Played?”.  Well, I click on the link and began to read. AND boy oh boy was I in for a treat!  I found out somethings about myself that I KNEW already but REFUSED to acknowledge.  Here are a few of those things!

“Sex, Money, and Lodging are the top reasons a man will play out a girl.”
  – I mean I KNEW this!! I’ve heard it from countless of my married male friends and MAINLY my mother. BUT just like everything else I’ve learned the hard way

“Education is power. Treat any guy you date like an SAT Prep book and study that bastard as if your future depends on it, because it does.”
    – I read this statement and fell out laughing! Being that I took the SAT and ACT in my freshman (SAT)  and sophomore (ACT) years of high school and studied my butt off for them…why not treat dating the same way!?

With that being said…after reading this particular post I just HAD to read more of what this guy was saying.  I encourage you to do the same!!

So ladies, here is my question to you: Are YOU being played?!  If you are, what are you going to do about it?

Thank you to the writer of “Black Girls Are Easy”! FYI…this information isn’t JUST for women of color, but can used for ALL women!

~ Love, Peace, and SOOOOOOOOOUL!!!!

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